Men who've gotten a vasectomy, Do you regret it and how did it change your sex life?

About 3.5 years in and I don't regret it at all. Dating afterwards was interesting, as I was always upfront with people if it seemed like it might get serious. For women who wanted children it was a deal breaker and we'd respectfully part ways, others got turned on by it. My now fiancée doesn't want kids either, so it's great.

As far as changing my sex life, in the short term it didn't make a difference. I still used protection on my end no matter what. When me and my now fiancée were first starting dating I still used protection but once we both realized that our relationship was the real deal, the condoms came off and hooo boy. It's fantastic to start and finish without worrying. She loves that she doesn't need to take the pill either. Sex is stress free and we can get right into things without stopping to grab protection and put it on.

Everyone is different. For me? 10/10 would snip again. For people who either roll the dice or use the pull out method, probably won't be as noticeable of a change, sex wise. Of course, that aspect is pure gravy next to never having to worry about an unwanted pregnancy.

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