Exactly this. Not sure what OP’s profile and photos are like, but I’m no Brad Pitt and I’ve gotten twelve messages (not sure how many connects - maybe 20?) from surprisingly good-looking women in the 9 days I’ve had Bumble, two dates, one of which became physically intimate. My teeth don’t look good, I’m skinny/fat, and my fashion sense is meh, but the words in my profile are well selected, tell the girl a little about myself, and also showcase some wit and playful banter.

I would also recommend being verified. I’ve gotten many more matches and messages after having that blue check mark. Not surprisingly, I’m also more prone to swipe right on a girl with a check mark. I also have a photo of me and two girls together on the beach. We are all fully clothed and not touching each other, as to not imply we’re together. But we’re smiling and laughing. Women like to see that. It’s social proof. It shows that you aren’t some sketchball who can’t keep it in his pants aren’t women. The girls are also attractive, though not complete 10s.