Is it a red flag to bring up anything sexual at all in the first few weeks of talking/until the girl brings it up first?

Depends on how much attraction you’ve built/ there is. If women are attracted usually they laugh and are thinking sexually about you. If they aren’t that attracted to you they’ll be put off you’ll come across as a creep. Generally goes better after meeting / in person. Even the most prudish types won’t be put off by it if they’re attracted. I’d say build enough attraction first before going for the sexual type jokes and you’ll see better results. Obv is also depends on the joke and delivery. Best to build mildly gauge reaction and adjust. Also there is meaning : purpose behind sexual jokes it’s meant to get a woman’s brain thinking about sex specifically with you.

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