Ahhh but just because you are a queer person that means you know everything about "queer" people? Lol got it!

I have dated a few and talked to a lot. I never come across that term. They want to be accepted as women in general. Regardless, if you want to toss around the newest most PC terms, go ahead, thats your perogative. However, sometimes those terms further Other and alienate people who just want to be looked at and accepted as normal, and not as an Other (i.e. someone who is unknown, or vilified, something foreign and different, bad etc...).

Also, don't most non binary people just want to be called a person, by their names, or in the third person / plural and gendered terms for them either / any way is not preferred?

Not all people in the rainbow spectrum adhere to the extreme ever changing PC ultra liberal terminology fyi. So just because you are queer, you dont speak for everyone in that group.