My (26M) ex (24F) got married today

You know what I think is hilarious? I could easily be an asshole and send all those fucking dirty text messages to her now husband and fuck up their relationship. I could've done that THEN and I could do it NOW. But I didn't NOR do I plan on it. It's so funny how you're taking HER side and by your name I am going to assume you are a woman.

She led me on for 2 YEARS. While having another guy, STILL hitting me up behind his back. Went as far as to fucking SEXT me 6 months ago on 2 SEPARATE occasions but yeah it's MY fault that I didn't see the "signs". I've NEVER been in this position before. I am the one who CEASED contact with her EVERY time. SHE reached out to me, SHE played me out, SHE led me on. She put my MENTAL HEALTH at RISK.

Yeah harassments charge? For a few words? I legit told her I should've gotten a heads up and that she's DIRTY (which she is) and to NEVER contact me again in her life. If anything, I should've reported her for harassment months ago. I am GOOD, homie. I haven't reached out to her in 7 months, I just feel betrayed and I don't understand how you can date someone for 4 YEARS and then change your mind that quick and go and get married. That whole idea is ABSURD to me, if you cannot see it from my point of view and are going to say I'm going to get harassment charges over a few texts, please don't respond because you're delusional. I have her # blocked and deleted, I do not contact her through any form of social media nor do I check on her. I was contacted by a mutual friend asking if I was OK.

I know when my friends wake up and check social media tomorrow, they will contact me and ask me "are you ok?". You know why they're going to ask me? because they know the BULLSHIT she did. Do not classify me as a creep or anything else, idgaf about her relationship, if I was a psycho, I would have fucked it up a long ass time ago.

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