3. My(27F) boyfriend (24M) has a history of cheating. I'm thinking of leaving, frie...

My(27F) boyfriend (24M) has a history of cheating. I'm thinking of leaving, friends think I'm crazy. Advice?

Can I just say the opposite of what everyone else is saying...

I was very paranoid with my current gf... when we first met my life was awesome and I could offer a lot and be fun... then I started my degree and my life has become very dull... I began to suspect that my partner may jump ship due things being less exciting... She also had a bit of a history of cheating when she was a bit younger and it was easy to join dots together, see conspiracies and get jealous over nothing!!!

It has turned out my gf is very happy with me and we have good relationship but I could have very easily turned it into hell for both of us if I didn't do one thing: Express my suspicions honestly and have a frank discussion...

I think doing this askreddit is a positive step to address your concerns but I would warn you against breaking up something which has a chance to be good for you...

A possible way to show your anguish is to show him this subreddit and you guys can discuss each suggestions validity. I did this a few times early on in my relationship to good effect.

tl;dr: Communicate your distrust!!!

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