3. my boyfriend and I are getting closer to having sex. I’m a virgin. I always to...

my boyfriend and I are getting closer to having sex. I’m a virgin. I always told myself I’d never have sex

I guess I don’t really get that comparison, elaborate? lol sorry.

I don’t know about ‘traditional’, but I know what I’ve experienced with guys. most of them have only approached me to have sex. or tried acting interested in me romantically when all they wanted was sex.

that to me would be being used for sex, and I don’t want that. if they came directly and said ‘I just wanna have sex with you’ it’d be a lot better. and if I agreed to have sex, I wouldn’t see it as being ‘used’.

maybe I should say lied to and used for sex? I know girls can use guys for sex, girls can use girls for sex, and guys can use guys. I just don’t think it’s cool when only one person knows they’re using the other. hopefully that makes sense. I just don’t want to be the one being used in that situation

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