My boyfriend's gross viewpoint

I know it may seem offensive to you, but no guy ever makes a sexual comment infront of a live broadcast and doesn't mean it as a joke. This is a guy thing we even say sexual jokes to other guys, like if you have tacos and then the guy will turn the taco over and be like "heh heh what does this look like"

Guys have a strange sense of humor, but it's when women try rationalize it that makes it come off as offensive. It can come off as a joke with no bad intentions but because you get offended by it, it turns into something it isn't.

Its nothing bad on you but this is why men never behave the same way around women as they do around men, women just find everything offensive that's why it's easier to be yourself more around other men.

Nothing against you personally I'm sure you're a great women. You just need to relax more, trust me if a guy says something wrong with bad intentions your bf will say something about it, men know when another person crosses the line and has bad intentions and we are relentless about it.

If someone is out of line we will comment on it rest assured, we are not the so called "toxic masculinity" bs the media tries brainwashing you to believe. Majority of men actually have good intentions, it just might not come off that way sometimes because they are misunderstood.

So please don't take things to heart as much, I'm not trying to defend him or anything but it is not the way you think it is.

When something is off majority of men will say something about it, we have very low tolerance for bad behaviour in general.

I hope that lightened things up a bit.

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