Am I a cheater or did I cross a boundary?

another thing to add, I am extremely dumb because when my bf initially asked me if I thought I had done anything wrong, I went through my messages and deleted messages from my 2 guys friends also. They weren't even bad messages but sometimes I can be overly friendly ( I haven't been since we've been official and he called me out for it with my convo with my coworker) I just panicked. He knew I deleted the messages because iMessage has a recently deleted button and he clicked that and saw. Anyway overall I seem extremely shady. I have done everything to try to prove to my bf that I would never entertain a convo now that I have a title but he believes I'm just flirty in nature & he told me he doesn't trust me.

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