there was a time I met a man online and he flew me out to his city to meet, he booked my flight and even sent me a huge amount to shop prior. I got there we spent a few days and he was already asking me to marry him, of cos I turned him down and said we should date for a while before talking marriage and that I consider marriage a huge deal. anyway we got on well for the next days shopping and doing all sorts, on the day I was about to go home, he even faked a tear or two at the airport but guess what the next couple of days afterwards was him texting me once a day before I finally get ghosted. I don't have body issues and I had guys wanting to get my number throughout the trip so honey it's not you. I know hot guys with less attractive women and you couldn't tell them otherwise.