To say that denies both the structures that have and do exist that favor one gender over the other. You cannot compare the statistics and deny that. To continue your other comparison, are you also saying that white people, as a whole have not had privilege over other ethnicities? Because it sure sounds like it.

Have you been raped? Because I was. Have you been sexually assaulted, harassed and abused? Because I have. Just because your experiences are different doesn’t give you the right to deny those of others. I’m not sexist, I’m a product of being viewed as inferior my entire life because of the patriarchy and sexism. I’m entitled to think that calling a woman who could possibly have sexual trauma an “awful person” is shitty.