Not necessarily. Some people have social anxiety and have gotten hurt enough that they don’t have a lot of friends. Though I can see how them dumping this info may seem like a red flag, I see it as a cry for help. I’ve gone through some of the worst experiences of my life the last few months (and I’ve already had a hell of a ride at 26 so that’s saying something) and I myself feel like I have no one to talk to. My partner genuinely seems like he couldn’t give a fuck less, though he has mental health issues so I try not to get too uppity about it. I keep my circle small and one of my best friends and I had a fight before my dad, whom I’m very close to, passed and so she hasn’t been there for me. My other good friend was there for like a week then got preoccupied with life and has texted me like once or twice since. These are both friends I’ve been close to for 10+ years. Not sure if theres something wrong with me or if I’m not very good at picking friends. So I can understand where this person is coming from. Though I haven’t went to tinder for support I can understand/empathize with the desperation for a shoulder.

Regardless though it doesn’t necessarily mean the person who needs support has something wrong with them. Some people just get put in precarious situations, it’s not always their fault. A lot of times life, who has been known to have been called a bitch, just happens.