The "one day she'll see" advice is an unconscious (or conscious) effort to keep you, BB, hopeful and in your place until the pristine object of your affections is done with her AF.

I have a slightly more expanded interpretation of this.

Think about how female desire works. It is inherently responsive, they really can wait around for that 'special guy' to come along. And who is that special guy? It's certainly not the guy who asks for permission and advice on getting what he wants.

Women dream of being taken by a man who is so overwhelmed with desire for her that he won't take no for an answer. He doesn't have to ask her permission - he already knows he has it. He just gets it.

It's partly solipsism (waiting around for Chad works for me), but also based on a fundamental misunderstanding of men by women. They like to believe that people are fixed, immobile characters.

To them, Chad has always been Chad. They don't want to believe that Chad was forged through countless hours of hard work and discipline. That would undermine the fantasy that he has some kind of special essence that gives them the tingles (this is why you don't share your inner thoughts with women).

Here at TRP, we know that there's no fantasy. That's part of the reason this sub is so widely disparaged. Because women (and BP men) don't want to believe that their lack of discipline is the only thing holding them back in life. We're revealing the smoke and mirrors behind the illusion.

And the prospect of this upsets them. They want to keep believing in the comforting illusion. Everything is the way it should be. You're a beta because that's who you are - and you're so useful this way.