I didn't say it was the same I specified it was different. I agree that actions are what make a pedophile pedophile it's why I didn't call someone who is attracted to children a pedophile and it's why I said it's a bad way of viewing sexuality and am confused by how many times you are going to come back to this and edit it.

Look if you don't think all people have to work at finding the right kind of person attractive you would be wrong, that's why people who are committed to each other go through counseling and therapy if their relationship is struggling, or why a person stops going to the same kind of abusive partner they may have repeated relationships with in the past.

I didn't even say homosexuality is wrong, I was saying this is a terrible defense for behavior because others use it to excuse their actions and say it's the same when it's not.

I can see for whatever reason you feel very angry about this and are calling me a bigot for disagreeing with Abby here, I think you should consider why it is you would take the time to time edit this thing multiple times to argue and disagree with a stranger on the internet. I didn't accuse anyone of anything, I stated an opinion that people have control over what they find attractive, however difficult that may be it's what I believe and I am not bothered to disagree with someone about this.