Players seemingly refuse to play with me

I gave him my solution I've done it and it did wonders. Yull find alot of shity people in life(id put you on that list) its important to be selective

why because i'm asking you questions?

If you need a step by step 1. Go to a hobby shop 2. Talk to the staff about running a game do they know any one? tell them about step3 3. post a letter on their gaming board. 4. Exit your house into the real world meet people at jobs/school/other activities really any part of life that is not sitting alone in your home. 5. Try online play like roll 20 ect.

so here's why i have an issue with people like you who tell others "to find better friends." Maybe it's easy for YOU to make friends, put yourself out there, etc, you think its easy for everyone if they just bootstraps and try. If they don't then they are to be mocked. This is classic Dunning-Kruger.

What you lack is compassion and perspective. A lot of people, especially in more nerdly pursuits, have social anxiety, depression, bipolar disorder, or are somewhere on the autism spectrum. Telling them to "go get new friends" like it's just a matter of leaving your house is insensitive. It is an incredible obstacle for a lot of people. To many people, cold openings at a hobby store is akin to standing on the yellow stripe on a busy boulevard or jumping out of an airplane.

If your friends are like minded and have such a stunning lack of compassion, understanding and perspective I'd honestly be shocked if they would give you shelter if you were on the street. More than likely they'd just tell you to try harder, that its your fault, BOOTSTRAPS and shut the door. It's easy to say you'd would do a thing like that for you when there's virtually zero probability of it happening.

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