I'm sorry you and your sister had cancer I really am, that's a terrible thing. But I feel like all of these terrible things you've went through are being used as a shield from the fact that I called you out for complaining about your gifts on your birthday. Obviously you're free to post whatever you want but this is the outcome sometimes, someone just doesn't agree with your point of view. Thank you for the apology about my birthday but you can keep it, I was simply stating that to try to give you perspective that in the grand scheme of things there are things to appreciate in the situation such as people caring enough to get you anything at all, or you have people who are able to. The shit with your boyfriend, yeah I agree that's shitty and that's what my post would have been about instead of a tiny part in a long post about being disappointed with your gifts, and why you believe you deserve better ones. Again I apologize for you and your families hardships but I don't see how those things justify being so bent out of shape over the gifts which is what your post is titled after and everything so is what's apparently the most stressing to you. It's just my opinion you can take it or leave it and I respect that, I said what I wanted to say, to just give you another perspective