Reddit, What is your biggest tip regarding members of the opposite sex?

For any men who need help, here's some sex tips...

1) If your penis works, don't worry. If it doesn't, find someone who it'll work for.

2) Whenever engaging in sex, regardless if you're Prince in his prime or the bumb from around the corner, always start with a lot of kissing, grabbing, and focus on how attractive you perceive her.

3) When fingering, start by gently swiping from the hood to the bottom of the opening. Once girl is sufficiently wet (you will know), there are two great ways I use to make her cum...

  3A) rub the hood of the clit in a circular motion gently, continuously, all while focusing on her every reaction to see what she likes. After a couple minutes, mix in some gentle touches of her clit. Lubing your fingers with her juices will help, but spit will keep from friction forming for longer.

  3B) Start with a minute or two of part A, then go inside the vagina very slowly and gently with one finger. Try 2 after 1 fits comfortably. You want to keep your finger on the upper lining of her vagina, about 2-3 inches in you will find 50 cent piece sized circle which feels cushiony, that right there boys is where miracles happen. Start by lightly rubbing that area, starting just behind it and finishing near before the vaginal opening. With your two fingers, slowly progress this motion, pick up speed and strength as you can tell she's into it. If done right, this is a good way to make women squirt.

4) When eating a girl out, start by kissing the lips of the vagina, sucking on them, and kiss the whole thing top to bottem. Once she's begging for you to do it, start licking the clit. You can lift the hood for better accuracy. After a minute or two, suck on the clit with your lips, and lick the clit with your tongue while your sucking it. This will increase blood flow to clit and do wonders. If you do it right, she's going to sleep.

5) When having sex, try as hard as you can to focus on her and what she likes. This is what differentiates guys being able to make her cum 2 times vs 5 times or even 1 time vs no times. I even recommend talking about what works. Just talk naturally and I guarantee it will add to the experience.

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