Some women just attract these kinds of men, it's something in the way they move or talk.

For example when I first met my girlfriend I thought she was being extremely sexual toward me. Something as simple as the way she folds her legs to sit down comes off as sexual to me.

She also gets constantly harassed by other guys and has been sexually assaulted several times. While that sort of behavior is never acceptable, I suspect a lot of guys are getting sexual signals from her body language and speech patterns and that's why they get so mad when she turns them down.

There have been studies where rapists identified previous rape victims by the way they walked or moved. It turns most rapists target the same sort of woman for crimes. It's not the victim's fault of course and often they're unaware of what they're even doing to cause these sort of bad vibes.