Don't bullshit your numbers or time to me. Either you have a full-time nanny or you're inflating your daycare cost for pity. And if you're kids are young enough for daycare, that means they still sleep like 12 hours a day so don't try to pretend like you don't have a waking moment to yourself. And you don't need to leave the house and pay a sitter (because apparently you're also a single parent...?) just to have a hobby. Like damn, read a book for 10 min after your kids are asleep--there's a hobby. Invite some friends over to try out a new $6 bottle of wine each week--there's a hobby. Order crap online and start a collection--a hobby. Try out new recipes for fun. Literally just anything. Parents who act like they are incapable of living any kind of life outside of just being a parent are the reason that people discriminate against parents.