Wants to but can't is basically the idea of every single pro-life person in America. It's not actually doing anything to you just because some guy wishes he could but can't actually do it.

Assuming a vote ever comes up, even though it won't, he's still going to throw in a dissenting vote and it still won't be overturned. I advise the girl in the OP to stop doing this to herself if she ever read it (or anyone else who acts like her.) Giving yourself imaginary stress for no reason is the sort of lifestyle that leads to mental illness and eventual stroke, etc. People seem to forget that working yourself up over and over takes an actual physical toll.