Don’t get the woman pregnant

That’s your own damn choice

Of course there are ways a woman can be a loser too, but as a man, start by not being a loser yourself. If you pick a loser to sleep with, it is YOUR FAULT.

Don’t have sex with the woman

Or

Fucking use a condom if you don’t want to deal with the consequences

This isn’t gender equality bullshit, it is owning your responsibility in life. If you cannot own your responsibilities, you do not get to reap the benefits of the pleasures, guilt free, anyways. If you abandon your children, you deserve to be scorned and insulted as a loser.

IF you fuck a crazy woman, and she is crazy and has a kid, it is YOUR FAULT for fucking a crazy woman. That child is STILL YOURS. The child did not fuck its crazy parent itself.

People with this mentality end up lonely losers. Women don’t like you, worthy men don’t like you, the only people who pretend to like you are the addiction merchants who sell you booze, drugs, toys, gambling, and the sex you can’t get yourself. And of course, the child you abandoned fucking HATES you.