Hello!
I’m sorry for the copypasta and I promise to answer everyones PMs individually, but I’ve had a very busy day and frankly, my inbox has died. So it might take me a little while. In the meantime, I’m sending everyone who's contacted me a little info packet.
Finding an Escort- In the US, I would recommend using eros.com, p411.com,or ginaslittlesecret.com(if you can splurge, which I also recommend. This is very much a get-what-you-pay-for industry). The prices on these websites range from a couple hundred to thousands, depending on how much time you want to spend with the lady in question. slixa.com is also a new site thats been doing very well. Slixa and eros you need to be careful with, anyone can pay to post there. Another option is to look through the reviews at theeroticreview.com. not all ladies like reviews, but they are admittedly very helpful. You do have to pay a monthly fee to read the reviews on TER, but frankly its worth it if you want to shop around and find someone great. However, the community of gentlemen on there is not super well respected and can be pretty disrespectful towards the ladies. try to use it for what it is and not get sucked into the community aspect.
Outside of the US, you're going to want to start googling. Punterlink is popular for the UK and Australia, as far as I know, but other than that i suggest you google your area + independent escorts. Backpage and craigslist are something that ladies do use, but I personally do not recommend. If you must use them, make sure to reverse image search the photos, and never explicitly say sex for money. that goes for any site. really. You are paying her for her time. When you meet her, never hand her the money directly. Leave it in a hotel bathroom or on an obvious table. if you need to, point at out, but don't draw undue attention to the transaction.
If you are a virgin- Please just mention to the lady you are emailing that you are ‘not particularly experienced with women’ or something to that nature. That way, she understands and can be prepared in advance and try to make your first time particularly fun.