It depends.
This might be a LONG answer, bear with me.
You need to start with what exactly turns them on. If you and your gf are not very communicative about it, there is still go the trial and error way. Speaking of examples, here are three I can give.
A - She was a vanilla lover. To her, dirty talk consisted a lot of poetic messages.
B - She was a Milk-Chocolate lover. That's a little darker, with things promising to go wild on occasion.
C – She was a DARK chocolate lover. Submissive, eager to please and most responsive of them all.
Finally, remember, after all the dirty talks are finished and orgasms are done, the intimacy is NOT finished. The key part comes right AFTER the rush of the orgasms and filthy talk subsides. THAT is when you connect. Read your gf’s body language to see if she wishes to discuss what just happened. Take mental notes on what happened, what she liked/responded the most to. And if she is shy and won’t discuss outright, just remark “you really liked when I <name of sexy move>, huh?” and if she blushes, she loved it.
Again, sorry about the long message. Let me know if you have any questions!