Thank you for the honest reply. I honestly don’t remember exactly how I reacted because of the shitstorm that came afterwards, but I do remember that I was immaturely silent for a bit and said something like “yeah, that’s a lot of people”. And then we talked about it for a bit and my views on sex. And that I just value emotional intimacy. But I was never explicitly rude about it, i guess I was just sort of indifferent and standoffish about it, which made her feel like I was judging her. I’ll reiterate tommorow why I reacted how I did and that’s really all I can do, because I’ve tried my best to explain that it was just an insecure egotistical reaction by me already.