I haven’t had an affair i have been with my boyfriend for 7 years, and am 22 he is 23. But since the longest time i have had doubt if am into women, and if you ask me i wish he would have broken up with me after i told him my doubts. We are in a different situations, but I can see that its hard for both of you to let go just like us. He doesn’t want to let me go and i can see him trying to make distance but still wanting me to be with him, and even though i love him very much and wish him all the happiness, i think we would both be happier if we break up. I am staying with him currently because I want him to settle down and process everything about me, and am hoping staying with him for a little longer would make him less hurt (because its definitely more hurtful to me - i feel guilty, disloyal and like a monster to want to leave him).

So yes what everyone said : let her go