She's perfect except for...

I would be all for the foreplay. I'd go down every night of the week, happily. I really enjoy giving. Anything intimate and sexual is easy for me. I'm also bi, which may be a reason for that...

We've talked about that. Sometimes she does say it's hard to get her in the mood. She says, before this current sexual refraining thing I've been requested to do, that I should just go for it, and likely once we get going she gets in the mood.

While I do hear what you're saying, and will attempt it, our past talks have me doubting this will work. She's mentioned, due to past insecurities I've had, that she doesn't care at all about the male body. She never checked out a guy in her life. She almost laughed when we talked about it. I was skeptical at first, but now I'm convinced it doesn't matter to her at all. I think it's honestly that she's just on the asexual side of the spectrum.

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