3. Should I cheat, divorce, or accept wife's behavior?

Should I cheat, divorce, or accept wife's behavior?

Decided to get divorce.

Yesterday, a pAP (MW) confronted my wife in public and then they talked for an hour. Not sure why pAP would do that. She does not know my wife, but I had been talking to her about our issues. Anyway, clear sign that I am not cut out for the adultery lifestyle. Status quo is not an option. So, that only leaves divorce.

Scheduled meeting with lawyer and decided to move far away. Plan is to not confront wife until lawyer gives me the green light.

Wife says she saw the light at a church conference this weekend, blah, blah, blah.

After the logistics of divorce, I need to learn how to avoid crazy women. Dated current wife for 3 years before proposing, she passed the family and friends test, and displayed no signs of infidelity until after we were married 6 months. She had a good reputation and has been a Sunday school teacher most of her life.

I appreciate everyone's advice. I wish you all nothing but happiness in the future.

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