3. Should I contact his mother? (long post about a messy situation)

Should I contact his mother? (long post about a messy situation)

With all due respect, I think I know him a bit more. Of course that is his right. And I will accept if that is what he truly wants. I just feel that giving me a 10 minute conversation where he got to say all the things he wanted to feel less guilty and then completely shutting me out after 10 years, is very immature and hurtful. Never gave me a chance to say anything.

There is no closure in that. I hate this whole mentality of just brushing everything off and giving up on something you want. I am totally respecting his space, but I do expect him to reach out after he has calmed down. If not, that's his prerogative.

I am not some psycho bitch, I seriously just think this is a mistake and an awful way to end something with someone who has been your life for a decade. It wasn't even a bad relationship.

Now I am a bit pissed at you guys for thinking a breakup after THIS LONG is just something I will accept. I obviously cannot force him back if he doesn't want that, but I do truly care. And I will at least try.

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