Thank you for your respectful and well thought out response. I wasn’t expecting to get so much backlash and negativity… I’m a first time cat owner and this is all very new to me. With that being said, you’re right. I wish I had taken more time to research. I think the main issue is my lifestyle. I work 40-60 hours a week, go to school full-time, attend monthly trainings, and am completing internship hours through my job. Quit honestly, I’m burned out, but that isn’t fair to Ry. I just get sad at the thought of putting him up for adoption, and don’t know whether I should give it more time since I’m considering changing jobs and taking a year from school. Wow, that was very insightful, responsible, and mature of you. I think that message can apply to a lot of things in life too… You’ve definitely given me a lot to think about, thank you.