It’s very messed up. And I say that as the female...

I had to drive 1,500 miles each way to give a deposition stating that I wanted $100 per child per month - because I made more than him, could do fine with just a little help, and any additional would have destroyed his ability to feed himself.

And now I am with a guy who has been sodomized for over a decade with crippling child support. Where they take more than $1,300 from him, and leave him to build a life on $240 a month.

That’s barely enough to feed himself, much less, I dunno, maybe house himself... that might be novel.

And any appeal is met with scorn and the suggestion to take another job, over the 60 hours per week he was already working.

Something is very broken with this system.

Men are more than just income sources and vaginas are not ATM Machines.