Both adults. Know she's stalking because I've seen what she writes about me sometimes 12-15 times per day in derogatory + inaccurate ways. She's written about me to other ppl in long letters even though we've had nothing to do with each other for years. I obtained enough evidence to bring forward both lawsuit and criminal harassment charge but dealing with her is such a pain in the ass that any effort to stop her will just prolong contact with her and regardless of the consequences to her this is exactly what she wants. The police have spoken to her about this. She has also harmed herself in such a way that she would be justified to seek treatment specifically from people who know me (I work in health care) When in treatment, she speaks about me at length. Early on, I spoke to her normally like the adult that I believed she was and asked to leave me alone. It was shortly after that that she went on the offensive with harassment that the probability of further civil dialogue was zero.

She has been in treatment and psychiatric care and even hospitalized problem is she don't seem interested in getting better she seems interested in being an ongoing burden. She loves the attention.

u are correct when you say that problems extend beyond asd I was just hoping somebody might've read through this thread and seeing something similar and new with the magic formula was ending it altogether. There are people in this thread that seem to think this is a misunderstanding I want to be clear this person knows that her actions upset others. She knows that she is not wanted, she doesn't care. She enjoys harassing people. My original question wasn't how can I help my harasser it was Does this ever end?