Standards

How/Are the standards different at different levels (ONS, FWB, LTR, Marriage?)

ONS I basically just have to be physically attracted to them and them not be an asshole. Generally good dancer without trying to dirty dance with me, hot smile. That's the main things and general physically attractive but I tend to mostly end up with skinnier guys not so much muscles. Oh and if they can't kiss or are too full on I don't go home with them.

FWB - I have only had a couple and generally it was dudes I was attracted to and was friends with them but had to many vices that I hate for LTRs. Like smoking. I could never LTR a smoker. Or depression.

LTR - I've had even less of these because I choose my partners very carefully. And yes I have a lot of things I want in a LTR

Are your standards solid or permeable? (If you list 10 things and someone hits 8-9, would you proceed?)

I love being single so I never had any issues turning down blokes because I wasn't interested in them. But I don't think my standards are particuarly "high" Money is not an issue I make more than enough. But I want a partner who works as hard as me and is as passionate about things as me. I never LTRd my last dude because he did nothing except smoke weed and then complain that in my free time I didn't spend it all with him ugh. Oh and Communication & Comprimise is incredibly important to me. I can't stand partnering with closed off people who sit on issues and never resolve them.

Do you consider your standards high or low compared to others?

I think I'm fairly average I just think I don't look for love like its my mission. I go my own way and it occasionally finds me.

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