I hope you’re the troll here, man. It’s very traumatic to go through what she did, and no amount of comparing it to “real trauma” will fix that.
You sincerely sound like you’re not mentally or emotionally equipped to handle having an internet connection.
My heart goes out to this mother for having this traumatic experience spoil the birth of her son. Just because it’s not a soldier being shot at doesn’t mean there’s no lasting effects.
There’s a massive difference between having to undergo major surgery after a birth gone awry than McD’s forgetting something. You’re the one who needs to read up on trauma. Surgery is traumatic.