I'm a guy. If a transgender person comes into the men's bathroom to take a dump, it won't bother me. Really, bathrooms aren't the issue that most folks I hear voice a concern care about.

The Obama has issued "guidance" that schools allow transgender identifying folks to use their bathroom or (more importantly) LOCKER ROOM of choice, and THIS is what has the vast majority of regular folks upset.

So my daughter is in middle school. Next year she'll be a 7th grader. There is a guy in her school who will be an 8th grader next year, who some days dresses like a dude, some days like a chick. He/she is gender "fluid". He/she is also 16 years old and in special ed.

So if this person wishes, and if my daughter's school is forced to accept this - this gender fluid guy, who sometimes grows a beard, will be able to enter and use the girl's locker room, walk around nude, shower with the girls, because that day he identifies more as a female.

I don't consider myself a prude, I don't care if you're gay, or how you identify gender-wise. But letting a fully mature guy, with a fully mature guy dick, parade around nude in the girl's locker room. Am I a prude, or biggot, for finding this completely ludicrious? I know my daughter and her friends would be completely freaked out, and many will feel their gender privacy is being completely violated.

Folks respond with "ya, but that's SO rare". Yet here I am, in quiet suburbia, and next year we may have to deal with a 16 year old dude, or "boi" or "grrl", walking around nude in front of my daughter, and girls as young as 12 years old. They're already shy as fuck around each other. Is there no chance this may have negative consequences?