I agree that too long isnt a thing from a womans perspective, but my gripe is not being able to go balls deep or pound away like an animal (without an ohnut anyway), both of which my girl (and many others) likes too. As for girth, cant say much from experience, but from what Ive gathered and my own experiments, 5.5”+ girth would yield pretty toothy bjs, and 6”+ girth is where quickies become less common and lube is more often needed so perhaps less spontaneous sex.

I admit I hadnt taken in exactly the part of the post about being ideal for the woman specifically. Girth wise is probably 5.5”. Shouldnt be too big for any girl and would be filling. If its not enough, use a dick ring and it should be closer to like 5.7”. Length wise, I stand by 7.5”, any more is practically useless and probably causes more issues than its worth. Would look great though, cant lie.