I could definitely say family. I never had a friendship with my brother, and every year he got meaner & more dangerous until now there is zero contact for my safety. Pathetically he went to LA to try become famous and of course couldn't make it there and had to move back after he quit his job to go to LA. As someone once said on Reddit "if you want to know if someone is a good person see how they treat those who can do nothing for them." With a brother focusing on getting money and fame , he hated seeing me who did not represent Hollywood dreams or any kind of value for his future really. Father was never around and similarly only interested in his own glory. Mother is a narcissist who starts yelling very easily , I would see her yelling at my brother, her husband, her boyfriends...it's her favorite sport. Eventually I became a target as well. I would walk out the room to go to the toilet and she'd think I'm walking out to go sit in my room or something and so she'd start yelling calling me antisocial. One time she spoke to me in the supermarket, I moved one meter to get a better view of cooking oil selection on a shelf while she spoke. She said "how dare u walk away from me" , argument all the way home of course once inside the home it went louder and more insulting saying what a fail I was at everything in life. A family straight from hell, I wouldn't wish it on anyone. In fact my mother once said to me "if I were u I would just run". Sure