She knows how I feel, she understands while not condoning it, we still get along just fine. She doesnt use her sexuality as brownie points or an identity, which is the right way to handle it.

And yes, she recognizes that flaunting your sexuality IS degenerate, and currently the only times its thrown in your face is when someone forcing you to accept the fact that they are gay. Am I going to have to show you the gay pride parade photos to explain that to you? I think you know exactly what I am talking about.

Recognize that no one gives a shit, until you start invading their personal space and you start inflicting your 'values' onto others.

The reason I call you disingenuous, is because you have this caricature of what me and people like me are, and you just project that onto me. You think I want to burn gays at the stake? No. I just think we all would be better off if people stopped 'coming out of the closet' and just kept shit to themselves. Gay kids wouldn't get bullied if they didn't come out as gay, you are doing these kids harm. Its not like gays were being slaughtered by the millions before 1965.