I never said you lied or did anything shady. I’m just speaking facts. If you’re sleeping with someone else, the relationship before is done and should be left in the past. Talking again is not a good idea. Women can’t trust after that. Doesn’t matter if you weren’t together. I am a woman and I’ve spoken to other women about this very thing. Maybe because you’re a man you don’t understand. But once an ex has slept with someone else, if a relationship is ever reinstated, there will not be trust. Which is clearly what’s happening right now. That’s not her fault. It’s biological or something.

If you slept with someone else, you made the choice to move on. So stop hurting yourself and your ex, and just keep moving on.