I'm gonna do this in bullet points.
It was really, really hard to do. I was very depressed for a long time, even before I lost my job, and I worked pretty tirelessly to get the new one. I think it's about inertia - the worse things are, the harder you have to push to get things rolling in the right direction, but sometimes all you need is one success to start putting things back together. Take it one day at a time and try to make a little progress every day. And don't be afraid to reach out! People appreciate it.
It will be different, but it will be OK.