I have read it (the list). I think it's quite clear from the context that this is precisely a SUPPORTIVE statement for those who would like to do this, but feel pressure against doing so - from people like you. Is it more assertive in saying this than it probably should be? Perhaps. But maybe that's what it takes to support precisely the kind of people who need this support (and they do exist).

Funny, when it got posted everyone in TrollX understood what it meant and tore it apart and supported women who personally chose that lifestyle at the same time. You're literally the only one that has manipulated it to mean female empowerment and pro-feminist, so it looks like that's your social conservatism manifesting as "progressive" values.

First, I am not exactly the author of said list, nor am I someone who publishes non-technical materials on the web, which is exactly where the list was published. So please redirect your aggression, I am not the author here.

You support every word written and injected the authors intent; so make up your mind.

I am an engineer,

This explains so much.

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Your personal hangups towards liberal women are irrelevant here; I've met social conservative wonen who slut shame, promote abstinence mumbo jumbo, and judge women for sex out of wedlock and moving in with men. I don't care about their personal choices, few do, until they start telling everyone else that's how it should be or attack them for it. Comparing that to a purely positive statement like "have a good day" is the height of intelectuall dishonesty.

If you've agreed that its every relationships goal to have a submissive woman who is domesticated and jobless, you're the one making judgements, and that's exactly who you are when you agree with the list, which you have. Saying its empowering to women over and over doesn't make it so; actual women have roundly and overwhelmingly disagreed. Instead of listening to them, though, you try and mansplain what women want and what feminism is when you are neither no matter how much you claim otherwise.

Asking that you educate yourself before talking ob subjects vs "stay in the kitchen like a good house wife", the sentiment you support. Nah, you're the one with unreasonable demands.