Okay so I don't think this post is the right approach to take. While I agree this sub can be/us hostile to women I also feel a majority of outsiders are constantly trying to tell them the same thing over and over. Trying to express how all men have power isn't going to help them. If anything they're going to feel more resentful because they're not in a position of power themselves. In a way you're rubbing salt in a wound. There are only two ways this is going to be rationalized: Self hatred for not being one of those guys, or hatred of women because they feel oppressed as is and this feels like some weird ploy to grab power.

If you want to get through to people you have to try and validate them. Not on everything of course but things that make sense to validate. A lot of this subs feelings and anger are understandable because of the position they're in. It's completely unique to them. Some people in this sub may truly hate women but I think a lot are resentful instead. They're resentful and lonely. The soul crushing kind that can't be changed unless they completely change they're entire lives. And what good does that do? It doesn't mean they'll succeed. It doesn't matter what the outside world us or isn't like, the world they've experienced is the only one they know. They're already drowning yo.

Plus get to know the people in this sub. Each person has their own problems with their own views. Making blanket statements only dehumanizes people more. Off topic but this is why I feel making fun of the NotAllMen thing is kind of backwards. If you keep lumping people into one group they get resentful. What I don't understand is why a lot of vocal female groups get mad when men do the same. Until you go out of your way to see individuals your point is completely irrelevant because you're not speaking to anyone. You're ignoring other's experiences in favor of pushing your own.