So I've been reading this thread for the past few weeks once my husband is asleep.

I actually work with TA as he is referred here. Like directly with him. It is so weird to read about him online because he truly is a pretty private person. A coworker found this thread somehow and passed it around to a group of us.

I've never met his wife. Not once. I do know the kids though, and all signs point to him being an amazing father. It is weird to me that he seems so absent from their day to day in her portrayal of him. He's very hands on from what we know. Sometimes he brings them to the office and shows them off. I know he used to (and may still) pick them up from school and childcare. He has left work early to attend their school events and always has lots of photos to share (that he clearly took because they are on his camera scroll…not downloads). He loves those kids so much from what I can tell. I talk to TA at least twenty times a day most days, and he mentions his kids at least a 1/3 of the time.

I have to believe something is going on behind the scenes if TW is really this nuts. Maybe he's staging an intervention or leaving. He is a very no nonsense guy. I can't imagine he is tolerating this behavior.

I'm on vacation right now in Georgia visiting family so I'm not at the office. I wonder if he knows this link has been shared now.