Most women my age where I am from are at least open to the idea of hooking up when they are single so I don´t think it should be hard to find enough that are interested. Obviously I can´t make it happen myself.

But I got it right yes? I understand for a combination of factors men have it harder in this situations but that does not mean is unrealistic for them right? If you put yourself together as described above, even though you can´t control how a particular woman is going to react you can be pretty sure (as sure as someone can be about this issues) you are going to be able to have this kind of sexual life without much trouble.