Weekly Relationship Check-In and Support Thread

Hi all, I made a throwaway just for this question but I hope to get some perspective. I got married some months ago and I am having the biggest fight with my husband since then. We are at a wedding this weekend, and he got pretty tipsy last night. I told him I needed him to take it easy because it was his friends wedding and he shouldn't be causing a scene. In the end we ended up leaving the after party (after the rehearsal) and he was fine. This morning he left to go do all the party things and I pleaded with him to please take it easy, he said he would. When I arrived at the ceremony, he was drunk. He was slurring his words and I felt so embarrassed. I heard from another person that he and another person in the wedding had drank too much and had to be given coffee. During the ceremony he kept staring out into the ceiling, looking like he was going to fall asleep, and even had to be propped up by another groomsman at one point. I went up to him after and asked him to walk me to the bathroom and he rolled his eyes and said he knew what I was going to say. At this point we were near a lot of people so I squeezed his hand and when he still didn't move, I just started walking and pulling his hand. Once we got to a quiet spot I told him he needed to drink water and stop drinking for a while, that I was trying to look out for him. He said sure and then yanked my hand off his and walked off. I went to the bathroom to collect myself because obviously I felt upset, but then came back out and got some water for him. When I found him again, he was drinking alcohol. I was so angry I could feel my blood boiling. I made an excuse that I had to return to my hotel room to get something (as he was talking to other people) and now I'm here. I texted him that I was not returning but he hasn't written back. I feel so sick to my stomach because I don't know if I should have left, or if staying would have been worse (either by us fighting or him making a show). By the way the only reason I talked to him about this is because he got too drunk at another wedding last year (and he threw up) and know in general he doesn't know his limits sometimes. I should also state I know no one at this wedding.

Tl;dr: my husband is drunk at a wedding and I got upset and left. What should I do?

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