Hi! I chatted with you in the comments of the adults sub.

Since you talked about your husband I assumed that you're older than me [22f] and are or were in a long term relationship. Would you be okay with me asking some questions about how you grew out of your trauma or how you managed them? Also about starting sexual activities with someone else and if you ever told them about what happened to you?

Everyone from my social circle have a lot of sexual and social experiences and are or were in relationships already, and I get really embarrassed when the attention is on me and why I never talk about my personal life. But the truth is that I'm terrified about having anything with anybody because of the abused I suffered as a child