I don’t think I said the same thing. This is a sub for adult survivors of sexual abuse. I thought your comment was bizarre and inappropriate given that context. As a survivor, you should know better than that. Most of us will never be able to disclose our abuse or get any form of justice or closure. Hell, most of us can’t even remember a lot of the abuse because our brain actively erased the memories. None of us want to think someone did that shit to us. None of us want it to be true. The idea that it was your parent? Even worse. It was not okay for you to respond the way you did to this post.

Calling out abuse doesn’t tear families apart. The abuse does that.