Deal with depleted or not as intense orgasms?

also a trafficking survivor and literally same! it's to the point where it's hard for me to have sex because i feel so guilty that it takes so much effort to get me to orgasm. part of this is because i have scars down there that are easily aggravated and cause me pain, and sometimes i'll get triggered and my dissociation will kick in and make that entire area go completely numb for a while. and that's a really uncomfortable conversation because i never want to make them feel bad that they somehow triggered me. so i have to wait for sensation to come back, and then i have to work to get back in the right mental place to have sex all over again ;_;'

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