What saying annoys you the most? Why?

Usually not just one thing. My dad was a raging abusive alcoholic. Grandma was a cunt too. Mom was, understandably now, not a very rational woman, considering what she had to put up with with my dad. And I'm a quiet dude, so ya know how school went. First GF went to a jesus camp two weeks after started talking, and returned and nothing. Wouldnt speak to me, ignored me after she got back. Never an explanation on wtf happened. Best friend slept with my second GF. Next girl, some guy calls me up after three weeks yelling leave her alone or theyll press rape charges out of the blue. Never even slept with her or tried. Confused me as much as the first girl. I get a little intense, BPD ( not the knife throwing kind, just intense.), so i can understand why she wanted to be left alone, but the rape thing came outta left field. Next girl sending me nude pics, sexting, talking bout 24/7 and shit, so i figure she must be into me. Nope. Not into me like that. Fuckin confused as shit once again.Two female friends got drugged in college so that was fun to deal with.

My life is a tragic comedy when it comes to other people. My luck with people is so damn shitty it started amusing me. Can't even get angry about it anymore. Family, school, friends, GFs all go/went to shit.

21 years of all that shit, and I'm not the most trusting person of other people. Incredibly paranoid of people. Any positivity in me was beat out of me, physically and verbally, or I was left so confused I'm still navigating mazes to find it long ago. Theres a shoe somewhere about to drop always. I'm told there are other people out there, but every time I try again its the same shit. Past 3 have been spent in isolation. I can't respond on the faith restored part, but that's why I just stay away from people. Either I bring the shitty part of people out or they are drawn to me like a magnet. Whatever the case, its a catastrophe every time and always has been so I'm not the most positive person about people if my life is any indication of what I have forward too, personally.

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