What made you realize your "family" was just a bunch of people you know and not all of them will be your friends?

When they helped me with money and then went on to harrass me how they always help me with money. I thought my mom and dad were just in a bad spot.

Two years later, another horrible thing happens - my sister totals her car, goes into hospital, needs five-hour surgery in the leg. They helped her with taking care of her daughters and then harrassed her about always taking care of her.

Every time I go back home I am peer-pressured and borderline harassed to do certain stuff with or without my opinion.

These people are not my friends, they are not people that I'd like to have around. My therapist told me to try and find something positive in them, and I'm trying, I'm trying really hard, but I just can't.

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