3. What’s the most ridiculous nearly funny display of N behavior you’ve ever se...

What’s the most ridiculous nearly funny display of N behavior you’ve ever seen from an N. For me? It was the time my nmom tried to convince my school i was skipping class, and then she became angry at the school for telling her i was present.

During a night out at a restaurant there was a dance show (a professional salsa dancer couple). At some point my Nmom, who knows nothing about salsa, started critizising the girl's moves. Not satisfied with trying to impress the other people at our table, she stood up, pushed the professional dancer girl aside and grabbed the man. Security had to scort her outside as she refused to leave the stage and kept saying the girl was incompetent. She was sooo offended that they didn't let HER shine. Her friends and I trying to bring her to some sense and reflect on how she would feel if she was that girl, nmom replies: "they took me down because I am prettier than her!".

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